December 9, 2024 – Stuff That Needs To Be Said: Essential Words on Life, Death, Faith, Politics, Love, and Giving a Damn

“People outside the Church will tell you: Love is no longer our calling card. It is now condemnation, bigotry, judgment, and hypocrisy. In fact, the Christianity prevalent in so much of America right now isn’t just failing to draw others to Christ; it is actively repelling them from him. By operating in a way that is in full opposition to the life and ministry of Jesus, it is understandably producing people fully opposed to the faith that bears his name.” (Pavlovitz, John. Stuff That Needs To Be Said: Essential Words on Life, Death, Faith, Politics, Love, and Giving a Damn (pp. 41-42). John Pavlovitz. Kindle Edition.)

When I was a kid, one of the songs I used to love to sing was the song “And they will know we are Christians by our love, by our love….” I used to believe that this song meant something – that it defined my church. Now as a pastor finishing his nineteenth year of pastoral ministry, I am not so sure that Christianity is known for its love. In fact, after the last ten years, I believe larger and larger denominations within the Christian Church are identified by outsiders by their hate and condemnation, not by their love.

Unless I am mistaken, wasn’t this the lesson of the woman caught in adultery? Didn’t Jesus point out to the Pharisees and the Scribes: “Let anyone among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” I like to think that what Jesus was writing on the ground while the Scribes and Pharisees stood by seething in their hatred were the many times they committed adultery, either in their lust or in their actions.

My friends, when people come to our church, are they met with unwritten rules and secret actions and phrases that make them feel like an outsider, or do we go out of our way to explain and teach why we do what we do? Do we meet strangers with faces that show condemnation, or faces that reflect the love of Christ? If we began to sing “And they will know we are Christians by our love…” would our visitors believe we mean it, or think we are hypocrites?

In our world today, the best way to separate ourselves from Christian “Wannabes” is to live out the words we sing – and then show people we mean it.

Pastor Dave