December 7, 2023 – Does the Bible Say…?
“Does the Bible say the oldest brother usually gets the short end of the stick?”
“Then Jesus said, “There was a man who had two sons. The younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of the property that will belong to me.’ So he divided his property between them. A few days later the younger son gathered all he had and traveled to a distant country, and there he squandered his property in dissolute living. When he had spent everything, a severe famine took place throughout that country, and he began to be in need. So he went and hired himself out to one of the citizens of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed the pigs. He would gladly have filled himself with the pods that the pigs were eating; and no one gave him anything. But when he came to himself he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired hands have bread enough and to spare, but here I am dying of hunger! I will get up and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you; I am no longer worthy to be called your son; treat me like one of your hired hands.”’ So he set off and went to his father. But while he was still far off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion; he ran and put his arms around him and kissed him. Then the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you; I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ But the father said to his slaves, ‘Quickly, bring out a robe—the best one—and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. And get the fatted calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate; for this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found!’ And they began to celebrate.
“Now his elder son was in the field; and when he came and approached the house, he heard music and dancing. He called one of the slaves and asked what was going on. He replied, ‘Your brother has come, and your father has killed the fatted calf, because he has got him back safe and sound.’ Then he became angry and refused to go in. His father came out and began to plead with him. But he answered his father, ‘Listen! For all these years I have been working like a slave for you, and I have never disobeyed your command; yet you have never given me even a young goat so that I might celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours came back, who has devoured your property with prostitutes, you killed the fatted calf for him!’ Then the father said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours. But we had to celebrate and rejoice, because this brother of yours was dead and has come to life; he was lost and has been found.’” Luke 15:11-32
If you read the bible, and follow the problems with relationships, you will notice that there is a pattern with brothers – they often do not get along. And the problems usually come between the oldest and the youngest. Consider the story of Cain and Abel – Cain kills his older brother due to jealousy. Or remember the story of Joseph and his brothers who sold him into slavery – due to jealousy. There is Jacob and Esau – Jacob was able to trick Esau out of his birthright and the blessing from their father.
As such, this helps us appreciate the setting of the story of the Prodigal Son. He is the youngest – and he is pretentious, rude, and abrupt. His older brother is respectful, polite, and predictable. The younger son treats his father as if he is dead to him by asking for his inheritance before the father passes. He then goes off to squander his money and property. When his money fails, he decides to return to his father and “reap the reward of his actions.” But it isn’t just his father with whom he needs to make things right. He also must confront his older brother. We have no idea from the biblical witness if he does – or not. All we know is the oldest is standing outside the party refusing to join in the celebration.
Family drama. It has always been a part of the human story. Why? Because we are all a part of the human story – and none of us are perfect.
Pastor Dave