January 11, 2023 – “Divide – and Live”

“Later, two women who were prostitutes came to the king (Solomon) and stood before him. The one woman said, “Please, my lord, this woman and I live in the same house; and I gave birth while she was in the house. Then on the third day after I gave birth, this woman also gave birth. We were together; there was no one else with us in the house, only the two of us were in the house. Then this woman’s son died in the night, because she lay on him. She got up in the middle of the night and took my son from beside me while your servant slept. She laid him at her breast, and laid her dead son at my breast. When I rose in the morning to nurse my son, I saw that he was dead; but when I looked at him closely in the morning, clearly it was not the son I had borne.” But the other woman said, “No, the living son is mine, and the dead son is yours.” The first said, “No, the dead son is yours, and the living son is mine.” So they argued before the king. Then the king said, “The one says, ‘This is my son that is alive, and your son is dead’; while the other says, ‘Not so! Your son is dead, and my son is the living one.’” So the king said, “Bring me a sword,” and they brought a sword before the king. The king said, “Divide the living boy in two; then give half to the one, and half to the other.” But the woman whose son was alive said to the king—because compassion for her son burned within her—“Please, my lord, give her the living boy; certainly do not kill him!” The other said, “It shall be neither mine nor yours; divide it.” Then the king responded: “Give the first woman the living boy; do not kill him. She is his mother.” All Israel heard of the judgment that the king had rendered; and they stood in awe of the king, because they perceived that the wisdom of God was in him, to execute justice.” 1 Kings 3:16-28

{“There is the story of a group of chess enthusiasts, good friends all, who had a long day of chess matches. Late in the evening these friends went to the lobby of the large hotel where the matches were held, to talk a bit and rest. While their chat began quietly it gathered steam and got quite animated. They were telling each other of their successes of the day. One said he had won so many matches, another told of how he had beaten better players than himself. After a while of this, the hotel manager came over and summarily threw them all out, saying, “I can’t abide chess nuts boasting in an open foyer”.} (John Baker)

To learn to play chess at a highly skilled level, you must learn patience and have the ability to think a few moves ahead of your opponent. One of the weaknesses of many players is their impulsiveness to attack when they think their opponent has made a mistake. This often leads to rash, inopportune or just plain bad moves. The task is to divide your opponent’s pieces — and then conquer.

Solomon had asked for wisdom when the Lord offered him anything he might want. His wisdom served him well throughout his reign as king, as the above story suggests. But he did not seek to divide and conquer – he decided to divide the women, to determine who was the rightful mother, so the boy might live. We could only hope to be blessed with a small amount of such wisdom – especially when it comes to navigating another new year.

One more piece of advice that comes from Solomon’s wisdom comes from the book of Proverbs:

“Look to the ant…consider its ways, and be wise. Without having any chief or officer or ruler, it prepares its food in summer, and gathers its sustenance in harvest. How long will you lie there…? When will you rise from your sleep? A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest, and poverty will come upon you like a robber, and want, like an armed warrior.” Proverbs 6:6-11

Let us look to 2023 as an opportunity for life, and not live in fear or regret.

Let us pray: Dear G-d, give me the wisdom to seek your will every day. Help me to see how living in your will leads me to life. Amen.

Pastor Dave