September 24, 2022 — Humility

“Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves; do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus,” Philippians 2:3-5
“CS Lewis put it like this: “Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less”.” (HePrayed website — True and False Humility)
Humility is a topic that comes up a lot for Christians. We hear from scripture that we are to be humble, while others will add onto this teaching that we also “should not be door mats for others”. In other words, we are to be careful that others do not abuse and use our kindness for their own benefit. My answer to the dilemma is this: we should pray for the wisdom of Solomon, the generous heart of the widow from the story of the Widow’s Mite, and the closeness of a relationship with Jesus as demonstrated by Mary and Martha.
You see, we all need to approach each situation that presents itself to us with wise discernment. It is one thing to ask “What Would Jesus Do?”, and it is another to ask “What Wouldn’t Jesus Do?” Each situation requires a response and doing nothing is a response. You see, sometimes Jesus acted, sometimes Jesus spoke, sometimes Jesus sat in silence.
The Widow from the story of the Widow’s Mite gave “all that she had”. She held nothing back in her generous response. We should have such a heart of generosity when we are called to respond. Again, discernment is the answer in the level of generosity.
Finally, we should seek a relationship with Jesus modeled on Mary and Martha. They respond one time with active hands, and another with listening ears. Sometimes they asked Jesus very, very difficult questions, and other times they simply followed, and gave him their total attention.
All of these responses require a level of humility where we demonstrate a mature soul that seeks to serve the “others” in our lives. We are not called to be door mats — we are called to have humble hearts, and active hands.
Let us pray,
Lord Jesus, you modeled self-care, not selfishness. Help us to determine the difference – support us to live humble lives. Amen.
Pastor Dave
