“What if our strategy to win the world was to “play” people into the kingdom of God? What if we invited people over to our home and, instead of telling them about our joy, lived it by playing with them? What if we could hear laughter in a church as well as “amens”? A friend of mine is a member of a church who toyed with making their motto “The Church That Knows How to Play.” I think he’s onto something.” (Mike Yaconelli, Dangerous Wonder; The Adventure of Childlike Faith, p78-79)
Jesus said “Do to others what you would want them to do to you.” (Luke 6:31)
The Golden Rule. Jesus was making this statement toward the end of his “Sermon on the Plain” (Luke 6:17 – 26) which includes not only blessings but woes as well.
We are really good at establishing rules for different aspects of our lives. Our work places have rules. Driving on the road has rules. Even entering a store right now in Pandemic America has a new set of rules. I have been thinking of all of the rules that we have, and it made me consider the Golden Rule — but from a different perspective. Instead of saying “Do to others what you would want them to do to you”, we now are confronted with “Don’t do to others what you do not like done to yourself.” This forces us to imagine what causes us the most pain, or fear, and then form our behavior toward others accordingly.
No one likes to dwell continually on the experiences of life that cause us the most pain, or fear, but knowing what we are afraid of, or what brings to mind the most pain can help us avoid doing the same to others. The command to “do unto others” is not just a “happy” way to try to be nice to people, it is a challenge to us to understand what brings the most fear and pain, and then avoid doing this to those we encounter every day.
It is always good to be nice to others, but it is a higher calling to know our own pain, and then never inflict that pain on another. It is a higher calling, but with the help of the Holy Spirit, it will help us live into the higher calling of faith.
Pastor Dave