“Welcome those who are weak in faith, but not for the purpose of quarreling over opinions. Some believe in eating anything, while the weak eat only vegetables. Those who eat must not despise those who abstain, and those who abstain must not pass judgment on those who eat; for God has welcomed them. Who are you to pass judgment on servants of another? It is before their own lord that they stand or fall. And they will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make them stand.

Some judge one day to be better than another, while others judge all days to be alike. Let all be fully convinced in their own minds. Those who observe the day, observe it in honor of the Lord. Also those who eat, eat in honor of the Lord, since they give thanks to God; while those who abstain, abstain in honor of the Lord and give thanks to God. We do not live to ourselves, and we do not die to ourselves. If we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord; so then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s. For to this end Christ died and lived again, so that he might be Lord of both the dead and the living.

Why do you pass judgment on your brother or sister? Or you, why do you despise your brother or sister? For we will all stand before the judgment seat of God.

For it is written,

“As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall give praise to God.”

So then, each of us will be accountable to God.” Romans 14:1-12

“Why do you pass judgment on your brother or sister?” Oh this is the eternal question — why do we like to pass judgment on others? Why do we sometimes tend to think the worst of people? As human beings, we are born with the freedom to think. I am reminded of the old song “Standing on the corner watching all the girls go by…” where one line of it says, “brother you can’t go to jail for what you’re thinking.” That would appear too much like the “thought police”. We may not go to jail, but our thoughts are part and parcel of who we are. And if we continue to think thoughts that continue to pass judgment on others, we might as well just shout out all of our thoughts, for surely G-d knows what we are thinking. I am just as guilty of this as anyone….if being a Christian were so easy, I would imagine that our churches would have every pew filled. Funny thing, people who do not go to church believe the ones who do are a bunch of hypocrites. And they would be right, our churches are filled with hypocrites, but that is the point — and we know it — that’s why we go. We are all sinners and fall short of the glory of God.

But, the difference between those who attend on a regular basis and the one’s who judge us is that by going to hear about our sinfulness, we are continually called into accountability — and then we receive the forgive of the sins we repent of, to support our attempts toward having the mind of Christ – of putting on Christ — of living the Christ-like life. Love your neighbor as yourself is one of the commands of Jesus, but that is just the beginning of the struggle. To love all people means we must first forgive and find love for ourselves — and Jesus has enough love and forgiveness for all people.

Pastor Dave